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Discriminatory Marriage Petition!

While the California Supreme Court is preparing to consider a state-wide right for freedom to marry this spring……people are being paid for their signatures by well-funded organizations in; an effort to put a discriminatory anti-marriage equality constitutional amendment on the ballot in 2008.

The California Supreme Courts decision is expected sometime in June.

This was courtesy of The Unitarian Universalist Legislative Ministry, California. 

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Interview with Stacey Sobel from Equality Advocates Pennsylvania coming soon…..

Stacey Sobel is the Executive Director of Eqaulity Advocates Pennsylvania. She and her organization have done and currently do some amazing things for the gay and lesbian community in Pennsylvania.

I will be meeting her this Tuesday at the Rally in Harrisburg to help defeat the SB 1250 Bill, the Marriage Protection amendment, that’s trying to be passed in Pennsylvania. We will be doing a video interview with her about this rally and about things that we can do to help stop amendments like this in our state (even YOUR state, if you don’t live in PA.)

If you have any questions you’d like me to ask Stacey during this video interview you can post them here. I’ll also be doing an upcoming radio interview with Stacey in the near future about ways we can protect our relationship, how we can be more active in our communities to make a difference, and more. You can contact us to submit your questions for Stacey or you can leave a comment here with your questions.

We do these interviews for YOU, so please, anything that comes to mind that you want an answer to….ask away!

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This post was written by admin on April 28, 2008

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It’s never too late for love!

An 83 year old woman and 79 year old woman marry each other in a nursing home. They have been a couple in a commited relationship together since 1995.

The couple is from British Columbia.

Read more about them here.

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This post was written by admin on April 28, 2008

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Convicted Felons in the Military??

So it turns out since so many gays and lesbians are being kicked out of the military courtesy of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” that the Army and the Marine Corp are turning to letting in convicted felons instead.

Yep..it’s true. Burglars, people with drug offenses, people with sex crimes offenses, people with aggravated assault offenses and even people with manslaughter or vehicular homicide convictions are being allowed into the miliary.

This is happening because the military is losing about 2 gay and lesbian recruits a day because of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” And mind you these are well-qualified individuals (minus the felon background) alot of which have speciality qualifications that aren’t that easy to find and the only reason they are being escorted out of the military is because they are gay or lesbian.

Honestly, this may sound horribe, but I’m going to say it anyway. I don’t understand WHY any gay or lesbian person in the United States of America would want to fight for this country. This country doesn’t accept you even as military personnel and not only that you aren’t even entitled to any federal benefits, rights or protections in this country because of the Defense of Marriage Act. I think I’d be more interested in fighting for my country when my country became more interested in treating EVERYONE equally.

Maybe that’s a bad attitude I have there, but although we live in what’s suppose to be the greatest country in the world…it still blows my mind how screwed up our country is. We STILL can’t even treat everyone equally and it’s 2008, people!

Let me know what you think of what I just said and what do you think about convicted felons being allowed into the miliary??

Also, if you missed our posting about Lawrence J. Korb testifing that “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” should be history….then check it out here.

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Clinton wins Pennsylvania!

Ok so my guy, Obama, didn’t win Pennsylvania, but that was kind of something that most Obama supporters knew wasn’t gonna happen anyway. But he sure did give Hillary a run for her money in a state that she was “suppose” to slaughter him.

Anyway, it was awesome that so many new folks registered to vote and a great majority of new voters voted for Obama too.

Please keep in mind, that just because I’m an Obama supporter, it doesn’t mean that I want you to register to vote or switch parties to vote just so you can vote for Obama. That’s not it at all. Grant it, I’d love it if you voted for him. But my main reason for wanting gay and lesbians folks, of all ages, to get out there and register to vote or switch parties so you can vote for a more Gay and Lesbian friendly candidate is because ALL OF OUR LIVES DEPEND ON IT!

Seriously, if you don’t think your vote makes a difference you are sadly mistaken. Look here’s the deal, when I was a young, lesbian, just coming out (19 to be exact) I had no idea about why I voted for anyone…and honestly, I didn’t care. I just voted for the party. And I think alot of younger folks (and heck, maybe even older folks) that are gay or lesbian may be the same way. I mean you’ve just come out, you’re young, you’re nervous, you’re excited, you’re looking for loveee…..you don’t give a hoot about no stinkin’ election, right?

WRONG! I don’t want the younger gay and lesbian folks out there to make the same mistakes that myself and so many other younger gay and lesbian folks made…..you’re NEVER too young to start to care about who you are voting for. Your future as a gay or lesbian American will depend on it.

So again, I don’t necessarily need you to be an Obama supporter, but I want you to take an interest in the voting process. Actually, RESEARCH every single candidate and check out their views on the issues that are important to you. You have internet access with a world of information at your finger tips….use it. If you need some help, HRC.org (Human Rights Campaign) generally puts out their report card on candidates…here’s the latest one for the democrats who are running for President in 2008. And yes, they also have them for Republicans and anyone else that is running. So that’s a great tool you can use.

But do your OWN research, make your OWN opinion…..don’t just vote for someone because Melissa Etheridge says so or your partner says so…..or the President says so or whomever…make your own educated decision to pick someone and by all means, please check out EVERY SINGLE CANDIDATE. (Believe me, you learn a ton by doing this.)

Ok…that’s my rant for today about voting. And one more time, a big thank you goes out to all of the new voters that came out to vote in the Pennsylvania primaries. Kudos to you all!

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This post was written by admin on April 23, 2008

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Let’s Go Pennsylvania….you have less than 1.5 hours to vote!

My vote is in, my partners vote is in….so the question remains……is YOUR vote in?

It’s imperative for you to get out there and vote today. The primaries voting polls close at 8pm. Gays and Lesbians need to start taking action in these elections (especially if you NEVER have before)…….ALL of our lives and futures depend on it. Let’s keep discrimination OUT of the government.

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My Votes for Obama (if I could vote) by Michael Moore

Here’s an interesting piece by Michael Moore. Obama’s already got my vote….but perhaps some of you undecideds will think this piece is worthwhile. Let me know when you’re done reading it what you think?

Date: Mon, 21 Apr 2008 04:43:05 -0400

My Vote’s for Obama (if I could vote) …by Michael Moore

April 21st, 2008

Friends,

I don’t get to vote for President this primary season. I live in Michigan. The party leaders (both here and in D.C.) couldn’t get their act together, and thus our votes will not be counted.
So, if you live in Pennsylvania, can you do me a favor? Will you please cast my vote — and yours — on Tuesday for Senator Barack Obama?

I haven’t spoken publicly ’til now as to who I would vote for, primarily for two reasons: 1) Who cares?; and 2) I (and most people I know) don’t give a rat’s ass whose name is on the ballot in November, as long as there’s a picture of JFK and FDR riding a donkey at the top of the ballot, and the word “Democratic” next to the candidate’s name.
Seriously, I know so many people who don’t care if the name under the Big “D” is Dancer, Prancer, Clinton or Blitzen. It can be Mickey Mouse, Donald Duck, Barry Obama or the Dalai Lama.

Well, that sounded good last year, but over the past two months, the actions and words of Hillary Clinton have gone from being merely disappointing to downright disgusting. I guess the debate last week was the final straw. I’ve watched Senator Clinton and her husband play this game of appealing to the worst side of white people, but last Wednesday, when she hurled the name “Farrakhan” out of nowhere, well that’s when the silly season came to an early end for me. She said the “F” word to scare white people, pure and simple. Of course, Obama has no connection to Farrakhan. But, according to Senator Clinton, Obama’s pastor does — AND the “church bulletin” once included a Los Angeles Times op-ed from some guy with Hamas! No, not the church bulletin!

This sleazy attempt to smear Obama was brilliantly explained the following night by Stephen Colbert. He pointed out that if Obama is supported by Ted Kennedy, who is Catholic, and the Catholic Church is led by a Pope who was in the Hitler Youth, that can mean only one thing: OBAMA LOVES HITLER!

Yes, Senator Clinton, that’s how you sounded. Like you were nuts. Like you were a bigot stoking the fires of stupidity. How sad that I would ever have to write those words about you. You have devoted your life to good causes and good deeds. And now to throw it all away for an office you can’t win unless you smear the black man so much that the superdelegates cry “Uncle (Tom)” and give it all to you.

But that can’t happen. You cast your die when you voted to start this bloody war. When you did that you were like Moses who lost it for a moment and, because of that, was prohibited from entering the Promised Land.

How sad for a country that wanted to see the first woman elected to the White House. That day will come — but it won’t be you. We’ll have to wait for the current Democratic governor of Kansas to run in 2016 (you read it here first!).

There are those who say Obama isn’t ready, or he’s voted wrong on this or that. But that’s looking at the trees and not the forest. What we are witnessing is not just a candidate but a profound, massive public movement for change. My endorsement is more for Obama The Movement than it is for Obama the candidate.

That is not to take anything away from this exceptional man. But what’s going on is bigger than him at this point, and that’s a good thing for the country. Because, when he wins in November, that Obama Movement is going to have to stay alert and active. Corporate America is not going to give up their hold on our government just because we say so. President Obama is going to need a nation of millions to stand behind him.

I know some of you will say, ‘Mike, what have the Democrats done to deserve our vote?’ That’s a damn good question. In November of ‘06, the country loudly sent a message that we wanted the war to end. Yet the Democrats have done nothing. So why should we be so eager to line up happily behind them?

I’ll tell you why. Because I can’t stand one more friggin’ minute of this administration and the permanent, irreversible damage it has done to our people and to this world. I’m almost at the point where I don’t care if the Democrats don’t have a backbone or a kneebone or a thought in their dizzy little heads. Just as long as their name ain’t “Bush” and the word “Republican” is not beside theirs on the ballot, then that’s good enough for me.

I, like the majority of Americans, have been pummeled senseless for 8 long years. That’s why I will join millions of citizens and stagger into the voting booth come November, like a boxer in the 12th round, all bloodied and bruised with one eye swollen shut, looking for the only thing that matters — that big “D” on the ballot.

Don’t get me wrong. I lost my rose-colored glasses a long time ago.

It’s foolish to see the Democrats as anything but a nicer version of a party that exists to do the bidding of the corporate elite in this country. Any endorsement of a Democrat must be done with this acknowledgement and a hope that one day we will have a party that’ll represent the people first, and laws that allow that party an equal voice.

Finally, I want to say a word about the basic decency I have seen in Mr. Obama. Mrs. Clinton continues to throw the Rev. Wright up in his face as part of her mission to keep stoking the fears of White America. Every time she does this I shout at the TV, “Say it, Obama! Say that when she and her husband were having marital difficulties regarding Monica Lewinsky, who did she and Bill bring to the White House for ’spiritual counseling?’ THE REVEREND JEREMIAH WRIGHT!”

But no, Obama won’t throw that at her. It wouldn’t be right. It wouldn’t be decent. She’s been through enough hurt. And so he remains silent and takes the mud she throws in his face.
That’s why the crowds who come to see him are so large. That’s why he’ll take us down a more decent path. That’s why I would vote for him if Michigan were allowed to have an election.
But the question I keep hearing is… ‘can he win? Can he win in November?’ In the distance we hear the siren of the death train called the Straight Talk Express. We know it’s possible to hear the words “President McCain” on January 20th. We know there are still many Americans who will never vote for a black man. Hillary knows it, too. She’s counting on it.

Pennsylvania, the state that gave birth to this great country, has a chance to set things right. It has not had a moment to shine like this since 1787 when our Constitution was written there. In that Constitution, they wrote that a black man or woman was only “three fifths” human. On Tuesday, the good people of Pennsylvania have a chance for redemption.

Yours,

Michael Moore
MichaelMoore.com
MMFlint@aol.com

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This post was written by admin on April 21, 2008

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Partners begin registering in Salt Lake City, Utah

Mayor Ralph Becker had promised something for unmarried partners and he and lawmakers finally delivered the Mutual Commitment Registry.

Partners were allowed to start registering on Thursday. It is available for unmarried couples who live in an interdependent relationship. Three (3) pieces of proof must be presented to the County Recorder’s to prove such a relationship (i.e. mortgage with both names on it, joint bank account, power of attorney, etc.) After registering the couples receive a certificate.

This certificate can be used to get get domestic partner benefits such as health care, if provided by ones job also registered couples have visitation rights for each other at hospitals, etc.

If you live in Salt Lake City and you’d like to learn how to register for the Mutual Commitment Registry then just click here.

Also, I’d like to hear from folks in Salt Lake City if you are out there…what do you think of this Mutual Commitment Registry and do you ever feel there is hope of getting rid of that state amendment which states marriage is a union only between a man and a woman?

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This post was written by admin on April 19, 2008

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Take Action Pennsylvania!

Equality Advocates Pennsylvania had sent me the following email. I’m asking everyone in PA to read it and to try to head out there if they can and to meet with your senators.

Here is the email word for word:

“Dear Carey,

Equality Advocates Pennsylvania is working hard to defeat SB 1250, the “Marriage Protection Amendment” (the Constitutional Amendment that would ban marriage for same-sex couples, civil unions and potentially more). We are coordinating a number of activities in the state and we need as many people as possible to attend and show their opposition to this legislation that could harm so many families.

April 29: Appropriations Committee Hearing, Harrisburg - Capitol Building, Room 8E-A, East Wing, 9:00 AM

It is critical that as many people as possible who oppose Senate Bill 1250 attend the hearing. The hearing is being held to discuss the potential impact of the legislation.

There was a great turnout at the Judiciary Committee Hearing in Pittsburgh last week and we need to do it again. Supporters of the bill packed the first hearing in Harrisburg and bused people in from across the state. We need our people to arrive at the hearing early and bring as many people as they can with them. We really must have a sizable presence at this hearing and demonstrate to these Senators that Pennsylvanians do not support putting discrimination in our state’s Constitution. Testimony is limited to five issue experts on each side.

There will be lapel stickers at the hearing. Please wear one to show you oppose the marriage amendment.

Visit your state Senator and Representative after the hearing and tell them you oppose the legislation. To find out the name of your state legislators, visit our Legislator Locater.

May 5: Rally for All Families, Harrisburg - Capitol Building, Rotunda 1:00

Join Equality Advocates Pennsylvania, the Value All Families Coalition and the Faith Coalition for Pennsylvania Families at a rally against the anti-family constitutional Amendment. Last session, we held the largest LGBT rally at the Capitol with more than 400 people in attendance. Our goal this year is to have more than 500 Pennsylvanians attend. Legislators and organizations opposing SB 1250 will speak against the legislation and the media will be invited to cover the rally.

All attendees are encouraged to visit their legislators that day. There will be a training session at 11:00 AM to discuss the legislation and visiting your elected officials. The training location will be announced soon — please visit our website for an update on the location.

There may be buses or vans from different areas of the state leaving that morning and due to arrive in Harrisburg in time for the training. More information will be on our website as this develops. If you have any questions about transportation, email Equality Advocates at info@equalitypa.org.

If you have any questions about the hearing, Rally for All Families or SB 1250 moving forward, contact me at ssobel@equalitypa.org or at (215) 731-1447 ext 11. Thank you.”

****It’s me again……I’m going to do my best to head out there on the 29th, even though I have a lot going on in my life. Why do you ask will I take time out of my schedule to go there even though I have so much going on? The answer is quite simple people….OUR FUTURES depend on it. We all MUST take action. Sitting back and complaining will NOT get anything accomplished. Let’s all take some action and SPEAK UP.

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Former Reagan Official urges lawmakers to ditch “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”

Lawrence J. Korb, who was the Assistant Secretary of Defense under Ronald Reagan, testified before the House Committee and urged them to strike down the ban on openly gay troops.

Mr. Korb blasted the policy and urged lawmakers to “get rid of outmoded social restrictions” like “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” He also went on to suggest that the ban was “counterproductive to military readiness.”

The numbers that Mr. Korb cited to support his case were staggering. He stated that “more than 10,000 personnel have been discharged as a result of this policy” over the last decade, “including 800 with skills deemed ’mission critical,’ such as pilots, combat engineers, and linguists.”

Mr. Korb states that, “the Army and Marine Corps cannot afford to place unnecessary obstacles in the way of qualified men and women who want to serve.

You can find Mr. Korb’s full testimony in regards to The State of America’s Ground Forces, here.

What are your thoughts on Mr. Korb’s testimony?

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This post was written by admin on April 18, 2008

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